unwomanly

see "unfeminine" for an explanation of the subjective cultural meanings attached to this word. Use instead cold, hostile, sharp, unloving, ungentle, uncharming, ungiving, unsupportive, ill-mannered, unmannerly, ungracious, undignified, indecorous, unattractive, unappealing. These adjectives apply equally well to a man and are not synonyms for "unwomanly," but rather reflections of what society tends to understand by the word.