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Emily May: A Woman Making History

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Emily May: A Woman Making History
by Rebekah Spicuglia

When asked how she and a group of friends founded HollabackNYC, the revolutionary site dedicated to abolishing street harassment, Progressive Women’s Voices alumna Emily May describes it this way: “We felt there was nothing we could do. If we walked on, we felt victimized. If we yelled, we further endangered ourselves…Then we realized – why not take pictures of these street harassers and post them on a blog?” And the rest, as they say, is women-empowering, harasser-outing, blogosphere history.

The site provides an opportunity for women and LGBT individuals who have experienced street harassment to bring the shouters, whisperers, and gropers into the public eye. Literally. Contributors to the site take pictures of their harassers with camera phones and post them on the blog, along with stories that range from “I never power-walked so fast in my entire life. I’m just glad they didn’t follow me home” to “I have to face the city attorney simply because I refused a man’s advances.”

One of the most powerful aspects of street harassment is its intimacy; abusive language can include a whisper, murmur, or a whistle, making the interaction unfairly personal, and that much more difficult to counter with activism. In founding Hollaback!, Emily not only brings these interactions into the public sphere, but calls them what they are – harassment, not “appreciating women” or “having fun.” This distinction reminds everyone of the fear, subjugation, and disrespect propagated by abuse. Perhaps the most dangerous way to treat harassment is as if it’s no big deal. Emily fights this every day by amplifying her language; in an interview with Metro, Emily said, “It is fair to say that these crimes are at epidemic proportions.”

In addition to Hollaback!, in 2008 May co-founded New Yorkers for Safe Transit, a coalition dedicated to making public transportation safe for all New Yorkers. In an article pushing for subway ads against sexual harassment written with Hollaback co-founder Sam Carter, Emily says: “We understand that raising awareness and making perpetrators think twice are the best ways to bite the hands that grope us.” Their campaign successfully put up anti-harassment ads up in subways just a few months later.

By not only highlighting street harassment, but transforming the vocabulary around it, Emily is both making history and changing its language, changing the conversation from abuse to empowerment.


6 Comments

  1. Dr. Achola O. Pala
    Posted March 29, 2010 at 10:38 pm | Permalink

    Making cities safe for all is a critical aspect of Human Rights. Safety in Cities is an integral part of the UN HABITAT Agenda which were promulgated in Istanbul at the UN HABITAT II Conference in 1996. I participated in this conference as Leader of UNIFEM Delegation to that conference. We worked with the Women Super Coalition led by New York activist, Jan Peterson and with WEDO then under the late Bella Abzurg. After the Beijing Conference, the Super Coalition became the Huairou Commission now based in Brooklyn and still headed by Jan Peterson. One of the big items in the Huairou Commissions Agenda is Safe Cities. By recognizing Emily May’s groundbreaking work, WMC is contributing to the implementation of the Habitat Agenda. WMC should take credit for making this critical connection between global and local development issues.

  2. Posted May 11, 2010 at 2:50 am | Permalink

    your post give us many useful news.

  3. Posted May 18, 2011 at 4:50 pm | Permalink

    I am impressed about the site!

  4. Posted May 22, 2011 at 12:11 pm | Permalink

    Hi Emily, wow! Very admirable job of that girl and her group is not easy to be targeted to a stalker girls on the street and should be even more courage to speak or scream. I am very proud of what you do, congratulations. Greetings.

    Thanks

  5. Posted May 29, 2011 at 2:24 am | Permalink

    Great job Emily. Keep it up!

  6. Posted June 22, 2011 at 2:55 pm | Permalink

    Thanks emily. Your article was inspirational :)

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